Beyond the Deadline

Rediscovering Connection in Busy Times

If you're reading this, you probably know by now that I have big creative dreams. And if you don’t know him personally, it may not surprise you to hear that my husband, Will, does too. Will’s a writer, anthropologist, and filmmaker, and like me, he’s always got a few exciting passion projects in the works outside of his “Business Hours” life.

This shared drive is a huge part of what keeps us connected. But let’s be real: sometimes, despite our best efforts, it feels like we’re missing each other.

With most of our non-working hours spent raising our amazing daughter, it can be tough to carve out time just for us—time to connect as partners, not just parents.

Lately, things have gotten even more hectic. With both of us juggling looming deadlines, plus the chaos of potty training and summer camp, I think it’s safe to say we’ve both been feeling a little stretched—and, honestly, a bit stressed.

But here's the thing: when it felt like neither of us could take anything off our plate, we decided to try doing things differently. Just a little shift in perspective.

Instead of retreating to our separate offices, we decided to work side by side—at the kitchen counter. I was experimenting with new mixes for a cast stone tray I’ve been designing, while Will was reviewing shot lists. The kitchen was mostly quiet as we worked, but there was an easy flow between us—casual chats, stories about our daughter, and even a few laughs as we cleaned up and prepared for an evening glass of Vino Verge.

It was small, but it felt different. It felt freer, more effortless, and surprisingly joyful. It felt like us again.

When life gets overwhelming, I’m going to do my best to hold on to more moments like that—moments where I remember to bring more of myself into my work, and connect with the people who matter most.